Intersex: should parents decide on specific gender?

This past week, I was struggling to answer one toughest questions i've ever been asked.

If i had a child that was born as intersex and was responsible in choosing to have genital surgery , which gender would I prefer?

Automatically the first thing I thought was, "well duh, a girl!" ( I've always wanted a little mini me)
But for some reason i hesitated and answered that i didn't know.
Going to college and studying about the human anatomy and its biological functions it has taught me that our body is extremely complex and that there are plenty of ways where things can go wrong. A lot of times this tends to move away from whats considered to be "normal" and we try to fix this problem and make it as normal as possible, like intersex for example. How do you chose what gender is suited best for a baby?
Although i cannot hesitate and admit that i've ALWAYS wanted a girl. And knowing how i am, i don't know if i will ever be satisfied without having one. But, I also know that i believe that its a 50/50 chance and the only person who can decide is God. I don't feel adequately capable of deciding that. I can wish and pray to have a girl soo bad, but when the baby is born the gender of the baby is what it is. Answering the question the now, i would say that i wouldn't decide anything. Im aware If you are born as an intersex there are alot of imbalance hormones and possibly extra genital parts that come into play. I also know that if i hypothetically decided to choose a specific gender this can possibly affect my child psychologically in many different way. What if he/she didn't feel like they were that specific sex that you choose, but felt they could relate more of the opposite sex, what do you do then? I'd feel extremely guilty. The best thing to do is just wait till my child is older and then they can decide for themselves. I mean its there body and they're going to be the one living with what gender they are. In my opinion, they should be the one to choose for themselves. The only exception to this is if their genitals parts were interfering with they're everyday necessity and it was crucial to decide.

Below is a video about a girl who was born as an intersex. She never had surgery and felt that it was the best thing to be able to decide for herself as she got older.

For the longest time, doctors felt it was necessary for parents to decide on a surgery. They felt this was beneficial for the child to have surgery as babies because it psychologically better to do it when compared to later on in their lives. Recently, a controversy has risen as more and more people believe it is unethical to do so and for those who have undergone the surgery now feel like it has actually affected them more psychologically by doing so.